Can love really be as strong --can it really be as good as when we were young?

All you die hard romantics out there ..ok we are moving foreward---this feels awsome--my high school sweetheart and I are getting down to basics about getting back together AFTER 30 YEARS --but I think of all the times I have tried and failed to get a spark restarted in a relationship but no --this one seems to have it's own spark included with it --neither of us are amazing people by the worlds standards and we have both put on weight and lost hair and turned grey...well CAN I GET A WITNESS has this worked for anyone else --or blown up in someone-elses face--- We must try -- there always was a magic there and it still is --i am single aand she was considering a divorce when I met her ---will she regret ending a 25 year marriage for me?? will we be OK...Can this work ---oh yes we are going at her pace which is slow ...what do you think I know of no one in my real life that was gone from a lover for 30 years and then rehooked Do we have a chance??

Can love really be as strong --can it really be as good as when we were young?

Awww, I think that's sweet. I'm young so I haven't been through this. But Carol Channing (who's in her 70's) got married to her old middle school sweetheart. And I look at my parents who've been married for 27 years, and they still hold hands, kiss, and hug like teenagers. I think romance can still be wonderful, even after thirty years. Good luck!

Can love really be as strong --can it really be as good as when we were young?

yes it can

Can love really be as strong --can it really be as good as when we were young?

i dunno man, I'm still young. i think that last girl that answered had a good point so i'd go with her ideas

Can love really be as strong --can it really be as good as when we were young?

I think it can work, have faith, keep the sparks alive and pray ...God bless

Can love really be as strong --can it really be as good as when we were young?

There is always a chance at anything you do. But I hesitate to give you such a positve outlook on the situation. You stated that she is considering divorce. What happens if down the road she dumps you for another man. This whole thing should not be happening while she is still married and only considering divorce. I don't know. You know women can play the games men play, the whole I am getting a divorce for you thing and it drags out for years. SO just be cautious and good luck.

Can love really be as strong --can it really be as good as when we were young?

Hey, my friend, it's like ANY relationship...GIVE LOVE A CHANCE.Maybe it WILL work. Maybe it won't. But for god's sake, give love a chance...I don't care how many years it has been.

Can love really be as strong --can it really be as good as when we were young?

Its very doubtful that you will both feel the same that you did 30 years ago, people change. It didn't work the first time............ Good luck.

Can love really be as strong --can it really be as good as when we were young?

yes you should give it a try , you have to respect her tho if you treat her nice everything will work out just fine

Can love really be as strong --can it really be as good as when we were young?

Thats neat. My grandparents have been together since they were 19 years old. They are now 66 and still flirt with eachother. I say you 2 have a chance, just as good as anyone else. I think if you 2 really care for eachother, and you are BOTH doing this for all the RIGHT reasons, then no, she wont regret it!