I feel so ugly. How can i get more self confidince?

I'm in a situation. I really like this guy, but i feel like i'm not good enough for him and he could do better than me. I have Strawberry blonde hair and blue/grey eyes, i'm 5'5 and 120 lbs.

I feel so ugly. How can i get more self confidince?

you have the hair colour i am lusting after, lovely eyes i'm sure, you are the perfect average height for a woman, you are slim and you have the guts to ask for help.

if that's not confidence boosting enough, when you see the guy smile loads, imagine you are the hottest thing since..um the sun. If you really like him he will automatically make you feel like the most special person in the world, even if he doesn't know who you are.

Let him see you only when you are laughing....make him want you.

BUT fundementally...if you're not good enough for him, chances are he's not good enough for you xx

I feel so ugly. How can i get more self confidince?

why is everyone into self?

I feel so ugly. How can i get more self confidince?

just keep telling urself ur pretty. flirt with the guy. make him like u

I feel so ugly. How can i get more self confidince?

You have to embrace yourself. Looking in the mirror you look at your pros not just at your flaws. Do something that makes you feel good a fabulous outfit, hair and nails, get dresses out and go out with friends or solo. When you feel good you become so confident. Just be friendly and you can build a relationship with him.

I feel so ugly. How can i get more self confidince?

A great confidence booster is excersize. It releases endorphins, which make you feel good. And if you do it enough you'll tone up and look even better.

Another confidence booster is self improvement- perhapse if you went and got your hair or nails done you would feel better about how you look? no?

Shopping. Its a bad habbit when you do it too much. But a brand spankin new outfit can make you feel soo good.

Just telling ya what helps me ;)

I feel so ugly. How can i get more self confidince?

A lot of people your age have that same feeling including me.

Well..... if you take care of yourself better maybe you'd feel better. Go shopping FOR FUN.. and try on dresses! It's fun and it helps you feel pretty.

Don't be redundant with your look and always try new outfits, and hair dos. :) Ok basically.. pretend in 3 hours... your high school prom is going to take place. Fix yourself as best as you can and then look in the mirror, you'll definitely feel better about yourself.

And by the way.. it's not only looks.. It's personality. No guy would want to date a total ******. ( sorry for my language )

You sound pretty!

P.S. If you fix yourself and look good every day, you'll feel good every day.

But don't get too full of yourself because that's just as bad as having a low self-esteem.

Good luck!

I feel so ugly. How can i get more self confidince?

For attractive lips, speak words of kindness.

For lovely eyes, seek out the good in people.

For a slim figure, share your food with the hungry.

For beautiful hair, let a child run his or her fingers through it once a day.

For poise, walk with the knowledge that you never walk alone.

I feel so ugly. How can i get more self confidince?

be yourself. try something new to make you feel better about yourself like a new shade of eyeshadow or a new eyeliner (try a navy blue). do something to your hair. wear new earrings and put your hair up to show them off. do something simple to enhance your look and i think that should boost your confidence a little. besides, he should like you for who you are anyways. you don't want to do something drastic to make him like you because that means you're changing for him and you shouldn't change for anyone - especially if you don't even go out yet! but do simple little things. don't go crazy and completely change who you are. if he likes you back then great! if he does, you don't have do do anything because his liking you should make you feel good anyway :] hope this was helpful!

I feel so ugly. How can i get more self confidince?

Have you ever heard the phrase "fake it until you make it"? Basically one of the things that men (or women) look for most is confidence. Not arrogances, but just act like you are comfortable with yourself and be yourself. And if he doesn't like you then - don't assume it's because you weren't good enough, it's because the two of you aren't compatible or he just can't recognize something good when he sees it...

I feel so ugly. How can i get more self confidince?

if u think your not good enough for him your prolly not

and if u say he could do better then u i believe u

your height and weight and hair color dont tell us anything about why u feel so ugly

and its not like anybody on here can just give u self confidence or tell u that ur pretty and make u feel not ugly

ive worked my whole life (15 years) to get the confidence that i have (wich i dont have alot of it but its enought for me) and i can tell u that i didnt get it by asking ppl on here how to get it ( =

I feel so ugly. How can i get more self confidince?

I agree with Gabbie about exercising. I know from personal experience that just going for a run can make you much happier almost immediately. It will make you more confident as well. Confident happy people are attractive people. Also, maybe try getting some new clothes that make you feel pretty and accentuate your best physical features. Finally, guys tend to rate looks on a pass/fail basis. If you're cute enough, maybe a low 6 or so, you're good enough for most any guy. After that, it comes down to personality. Just because a guy CAN date a more attractive girl doesn't mean he'll want to. If you are fun to be around, that's going to get you pretty far in life.

I feel so ugly. How can i get more self confidince?

I know these sort of things are easier said than done, and everyone with low self esteem can take advice one way or the other... but, you really need to just look at yourself. Forget about your "bad" qualities, and focus on all the good! Strawberry blonde hair, blue/grey eyes, and being a perfect weight and height is a start!! I'm sure you're stunning, you just don't know how to tell yourself that.

Put some mascara and some lip gloss on, bring out the femininity and the beauty in yourself.

Tell yourself you're beautiful, and hang around people that make you feel good about yourself. Good friends who give you compliments and whatnot.

And most of all, just be a good person.

Good luck!

I feel so ugly. How can i get more self confidince?

First of all a guy should like you for who u are inside, not what he sees on the outside. Maybe you could change the little things that bother you. Don't go to extremes just because of a boy. To me you sound beautiful. You are also tall, wich is good. Mabye make smarter choices, like in eating healthy, exercising, keeping up hygene, and your overall health. There are many different things that you could do, but make sure they are smart choices. You never want to do something you will regret in the end even if it means you will get this guy. Hope this helps!